How To Runaway As An Adult

by The Runaway Guide on March 10, 2011

 

A lot of you older folks are probably thinking, what is this guide, what is this madness?  I want to runaway, but not like this. Admittedly, my guides are on the extreme side. However, no matter how old you are, you can runaway too! You can pick up, change your career and change your life! All you have to do is believe and have the courage to do so. I once met a 65 year old Irish man who, 10 years earlier, had decided to embark on the backpacking trip he had never taken in his youth. He was one of the most enlightened people I have ever met.

 

 

In fact, the dogma of Hinduism actually promotes running away. It posits that after 20-30years of societal obligations, it is now time to withdraw from society, and seek the true meaning of life. And that this requires a pilgrimage out into the world or into nature. According to Houston Smith, on Hindu conceptions of retirement, “Must the human spirit be indentured to society forever? The time has come to begin ones true adult education, to discover who one is and what life is about.” At the extreme, this implies that one must completely forgo the ego and live as a beggar. On the other hand, it can be interpreted as simply a removal from ones society in order to better comprehend the self. So, if Hinduism rings true for you, than your golden years are when you are actually meant to travel.

 

 

If you’re, according to Sinatra, “young at heart,” open to adventure, tired of the rat race, and enjoy the teachings of Hinduism, it may just be time for you to runaway too. In this guide, I will present you with a series of runaway travel options that range the spectrum from the extreme to the extremely comfortable.

 

1) Become Homeless: Homeless!? What? This reaction is understandable. Homelessness is a word with a rather negative connotation. Our whole lives we have looked down on the homeless as failures or weak. While this may be true for most homeless people, some are the antithesis of this. The latter are people who are well educated and sober but due to an inner calling or terrible accident, have decided to resign from society. For instance, one man I met lost his entire family in a car accident. So distraught over this, he preferred a life of solitude and contemplation. He is another extremely enlightened man. Practically speaking, the best place for you to become homeless is the south of France. The climate is beautiful, the bread and cheese are compliments of the state and there is a great tent community along the beach. More, the French government will provide you with, regardless of your nationality, 500 euro, deposited monthly into a special bankcard. So, if you’re broke and don’t mind camping, going homeless in southern France may be the path for you.

 

 

2) Work A Yacht: This sounds more like it right? If you’ve ever wanted to travel the high seas of the Caribbean and Mediterranean, working on a luxurious private yacht may be your ideal. There are a few different positions where age is not an issue. Depending on your experience, you can apply as an engineer, chef or maid. All of which pay considerably and provide you with free room and board. The best places to seek out this line of work are the harbors of Spain, Southern France and Ft. Lauderdale. For more information, refer to the following runaway guide, “How To Work On A Luxury Yacht.”

 

 

 

3) Volunteer: Two of the most accommodating and well known agencies are the Peace Corps and United Nations Volunteer program. The peace corps generally consists of recent college graduates but has many older professionals as well. Basically, it is a 27 month commitment. You can pick what region of the world you would like to go to but can’t pick the specific country. They will provide you with a stipend and language courses and at the end of your service they will grant you 6500$ to help you get back on your feet. Another great volunteer program is the United Nations Volunteers. The UNV is more oriented towards professionals. Unlike employment in the UN, you won’t need an advanced university degree. So if you have experience in any relevant field and believe in the goals of the UN, you may want to consider signing up with the UNV .

 

4) Finally, you can always go backpacking. There really is no age limit. Whether you’re 18, fresh out of high school or 65, there are no prejudices among travelers. They are a community of people from all backgrounds, cultures, nationalities and ages who share a single passion. Travel. If you ride a motorcycle or row crew, then you are probably already familiar with this. When you are flying down the 101 freeway in California at 101 mph, you can’t help but smile and wave to other bikers. The freedom and euphoria is shared. And the same goes for travelers. So don’t think you are too old for backpacking or worry that you won’t fit in. You are never too old and you and your life story will be a source of intrigue for other travelers, I guarantee it.

These are just a few of the options that lay waiting for you. If you have the courage to chose one, you will surely have a blast and, perhaps, even discover a deeper sense of self. It will be frightening at first but it will quickly get easier. So why not take a chance, break the mold, do away with conceptions of age, and runaway too!?!?

{ 17 comments… read them below or add one }

rush May 31, 2011 at 1:47 pm

Hi Leif,
just wanted to clarify – you’re saying there’s opportunities for finding work on yachts and stuff in florida? i was just looking for cheap ways of crossing the atlantic as part to kick off my european trip this summer. actually doing it the old fashined way on a boat would be awesome. and funny, i thought about florida too for some reason. but if not florida, do you know any other ports/cities on the east coast where you think i might have any luck? living in montreal myself, i’m definitely going to check out the freight ships in our harbor, but really not sure any boats from here will get me anywhere in-around europe.

Dimitry

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Nomadic Samuel July 18, 2011 at 10:58 am

These are great ideas! I’ve never had my own ‘home’ in my adult years and the concept of owning a place and rotting away in it for years to come is freaky. I’d take any of the above options any day!

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Kim July 18, 2011 at 12:31 pm

Great article. There are so many different ways to run away. I’ve been thrilled to learn all of the volunteer and housesitting opportunities out in the world.

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Raymond July 21, 2011 at 9:45 pm

I just ran away and it’s easier than you would think. I prefer to call it “running to” though… :)

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chris February 15, 2012 at 3:59 pm

I ran away from a not so called home 12 years ago. I had the time of my life for quite a bit but, then the homeless thing got ridiculous. This webpage has good ideas, I wouldn’t mind doing the volunteer thing myself.

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The Runaway Guide February 22, 2012 at 3:18 am

Hey Chris,
thanks! I bet you have some good tricks too.
Best,
Leif

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lisel April 1, 2012 at 10:26 pm

Hi ,finding this website and lore to France for years , just turning 60 ,just divorced now maybe the runaway thoughts can take place,I love camping, minimalism and living in Florida since 1974 ….A beach,south France,bread and cheese and camping with a 500 euro expense sounds like heaven on earth…Are you sure of this option? cause I’m packing my toothbrush and bathing suit!!!!Thanks for the information.

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The Runaway Guide August 10, 2012 at 11:12 pm

Hey I’m pretty sure it is still possible. Although with the econ crisis itd be best to double check.

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Ben April 12, 2012 at 6:36 pm

Hi, I enjoyed reading this. I’m thinking of doing something similar myself, and the South of France thing sounds great. What is the protocol for actually doing it? I presume you have to register as homeless or something? For the bankcard and the bread!

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The Runaway Guide April 25, 2012 at 4:48 pm

Hey Ben,
First, you need to be at least 25. THen you register at the police station and they will get you in touch with french social services.

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Emily July 15, 2012 at 9:17 am

I am 23, and shortly after moving out on my own, my family needed me to move back and help them with the rent. Now, they are fine without my assistance. In all my years, my strongest urge has been to travel. Anywhere. Now, I have that chance. I want so much to take it, to taste that freedom that I’ve been craving. To try new things and experience life. But, I’m afraid. I am short, and have lived a pretty sheltered life thus far. I’d like to think that I have what it takes to make ti through if things went wrong. But, I’m scared that I don’t. I suppose this is completely normal, lol. For the past few weeks, all I’ve wanted to do was to steal away in the middle of the night. That must sound crazy, considering that I can leave as I please. I suppose that posting this is more therapeutic for me than anything, to write down what I haven’t told anyone before… If anyone has actually read my boring post and found themselves identifying with me, please let me know.

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The Runaway Guide August 10, 2012 at 10:26 pm

Hey Emily, you should totally go for it. Nothing will go wrong unless you let it. You gotta do what you want to and take time for yourself. Life is too short. If you need any help planning a trip, let me know. Best, Leif :)

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Tom September 2, 2012 at 12:49 am

Emily,

It sounds like we’re in the same boat, for the most part. I am 23 as well. Do you happen to live in the south of USA? If not, maybe someone else reading this does. I’m thinking of going on an adventure myself, but it’d be much easier with another person for back-up. Please contact me if interested.

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Carlo Cretaro August 16, 2012 at 5:53 pm

Hey Leif,

I did the volunteer option for 3 months in Africa…. Not through a rip off company but of my own accord and I loved it. Tough, but very rewarding! Great post this is. Thanks man.

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The Runaway Guide August 27, 2012 at 5:53 pm

Hey Carolo, thats awesome. Glad to know you did it on your own. So much better that way. All the best!

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Daren January 8, 2013 at 7:00 pm

This all sounds awesome. I’m 49 and just divorced. My kids are young adults now and off to collage. I have lived for others for the last 25 years. Now I just want to get the hell out of doge and live for myself. I feel like i’m 20 again and want to start over somewhere else with someone else. Would someone tell me to just fucking go for it !!

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The Runaway Guide January 12, 2013 at 6:58 pm

Hey Daren,
Go For It!!! I’m serious, why the hell not. I definitely would if I were you, what do you have to lose?
When you decide where you want to go, let me know and maybe I can help.
Good Luck!

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